Sexual compatibility is not a thing of a night, it requires immense efforts and emotions from both the sides. Although you may have amassed a lot of knowledge on the compatibility in bed in a couple, theory is very different from practical. It is not necessary that what turns you on, is what she has in store for you. Relationships are hard. And it is not a given that the person you love with all your heart and soul will be sexually compatible with you. Not only you share all the rants, nags and the ups and downs of the other person, but you also have to make those romantic gestures to woo them.
Thus, a commitment is surely not a bed of roses! If while doing the Deed, you find yourself zoning out while in the act, not reaching the climax no matter how hard your partner tries, not enjoying foreplay, then you guys may not be the best match in the bed.
The signs here will be eye-openers for you, to understand how dire the situation actually is!
#1. Sex is rather monotonous and mundane
There are no sudden pangs of passion or the urge to try something new today. Intimacy between the two of you is rather routine and scheduled.
#2. Both of you don't enjoy in the same position.
Although one of you tries to please the other one, it is great if both of you feel the pleasure in the same position. 'Cause the passion there knows no bounds.
#3. You find it a task to concentrate while under the sheets.
You are easily distracted and get turned off pretty quickly. This can be identified when you are zoning out while you should be in deep throes of passion. Surely, the wallpaper or the curtains cannot be more entrancing than your partner.
#4. TV is on and you are 'turned off'!
Guys, this is a curse when you want to go wild under the sheets. It is the worst distraction and leaves you uninterested and absolutely irritated. Thus, having sex with the TV on is a sign of incompatibility.
#5. You get intimate only on special occasions.
Why man why? If the act is virtually non-existent on days less special then you guys are surely not special for each other, especially in bed. Now, this is an alarming of the lack of spark!
#6. It has been ages when you both felt horny at the same time.
It's a rarity when you both are feeling the urge at the same time, then it is time to think, folks! If the case is either they want it when you don't or you're feeling sexy and they make up some excuse, what you lack is compatibility.
#7. You find it hard to believe when your friends talk about the perfect kind of sex they had last night.
Such a world where this level of compatibility and lust exist is beyond your imagination. This surely points towards the lack of fun you are having in bed, 'cause it is surely not as mundane as you think.
#8. Most striking of all...
You are not sexually attracted to them. Well, this speaks volumes on your bond under the sheets. Sexual attraction is a pre-requisite if you are a couple, so please think!
#9. Foreplay? What is that?
If you guys miss out on this, then you are definitely missing out on a LOT! Foreplay is something that prepares you for the climax and results in a more satisfied and fulfilling session. Keep trying new ways and identifying new erogenous spots to keep the fun meter up.
#10. You are not able to communicate your heart.
Communication is a must when you are looking for sexual compatibility in someone. You need to communicate what you like, hear what s/he likes and what makes it worth for you together. Voice your passions and needs in the heat of the moment, some dirty talk is always magical.
#11. You are not comfy seeing yourself, bare!
It is of utmost importance to feel the confidence in your body. Also, it is nearly impossible to tell your partner what you yourself are not aware of or proud of! You need to understand your sexuality, both mentally and physically.
#12. You refrain from trying new things at new places.
The bedroom is the only place where you are comfy to get intimate with your partner. If you have sexual feelings for your partner, then place does not matter. You are open and up for adventure.
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